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What Parents Can Learn From a Town That Produced 11 Olympians<\/strong><\/a> by Karen Crouse in the New York Times<\/p>\n “What started out as a sports book evolved into what is essentially a parenting guide as I came to realize that Norwich\u2019s secret to happiness and excellence can be traced to the way the town collectively raises its children.<\/p>\n It is an approach that stresses participation over prowess, a generosity of spirit over a hoarding of resources and sportsmanship over one-upmanship. Norwich has sent its kids to the Olympics while largely rejecting the hypercompetitive joy-wringing culture of today\u2019s achievement-oriented parents. In Norwich, kids don\u2019t specialize in a single sport, and they even root for their rivals.”<\/p>\n Don\u2019t Overdiscuss Your Teen\u2019s Problems<\/strong><\/a> by Jennifer Breheny Wallace on the Wall Street Journal<\/p>\n “When the mean girls (or boys) strike at school, many parents naturally want to ask about every last detail\u2014and then they continue to check in to see how the situation is going. A growing body of research suggests, however, that dwelling on such problems can do a child more harm than good.”<\/p>\n 8 Ways to Help Older Kids Develop a Sense of Imagination<\/strong><\/a> by Linda Flanagan on MindShift<\/p>\n “Researcher Wendy Ostroff<\/a>, author of Cultivating Curiosity in K-12 Classrooms<\/em>, is a student of imagination and curiosity. Like Robinson, Ostroff believes many schools are set up in such a way as to wring out kids\u2019 natural imaginativeness. ‘School is very oriented towards concepts,’ she said, with walls between the creative classes like art and drama and ‘real’ subjects where students have to perform. Lacking flexibility and time, teachers are required to hit ‘learning outcomes’ and hew closely to lesson plans. Students respond by trying to please the teacher and get A\u2019s, often losing any intrinsic interest in the subject along the way. ‘This is the opposite of imagination and creativity,’ she said.<\/p>\n Because imaginative thinking hones creativity and improves students\u2019 social and emotional skills, it\u2019s something that teachers and schools should fold into their planning. Ostroff identified several strategies teachers can adopt to encourage older students to activate their dormant imaginations.”<\/p>\n Yes, we might be overparenting, but it\u2019s not all bad<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0by Mary Janevic on Motherwell<\/p>\n “[A]s the parent of three post-millenial children\u2014born after 2000\u2014I\u2019ve had ample opportunity to observe our youngest generation at close range. And there\u2019s a lot to like about this newest crop of kids. No doubt, post-millenials are different from their parents and grandparents.\u00a0But they are also ‘good-different.'”<\/p>\n Sexting Scandals and Shaming: What Your Teen Could Be Facing Online and What You Need to Know<\/strong><\/a> by Sue Scheff on Parent Toolkit<\/p>\n “If you suspect your teen is involved in an incident of sexting, cyberbullying, online hate, or maybe even sextortion, and if they won’t open up to you, encourage them to tell someone. Let them know CrisisTextLine<\/a> is open for them. Tell them that they are never alone no matter what. As redundant as it sounds, communication is key and your child needs to know they will never need to go through a dark period by themselves.”<\/p>\n 7 Damaging Parenting Behaviors That Keep Children From Growing Into Leaders<\/strong><\/a> by Kathy Carpino on Thrive Global<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s important for parents to become exceedingly self-aware of their words and actions when interacting with their children, or with others when their children are nearby. Care enough to train them, not merely treat them to a good life. Coach them, more than coddle.\u201c<\/p>\n Five Ways to Help Teens Think Beyond Themselves<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>by Amy L. Eva on Greater Good<\/p>\n “A new study<\/a> of adolescents and emerging adults confirms that many young adults simply do not exhibit a beyond-the-self dimension of purpose. In fact, a beyond-the-self intention is even \u201catypical\u201d of adolescents, according to researchers.<\/p>\n That being the case, how can we as parents and educators help them to find that intention?<\/p>\n Here are five research-based ways to inspire teens to connect with something larger than themselves.”<\/p>\n You May Also Like:\u00a0<\/strong>Parenting lessons learned from the laundry pile<\/a><\/p>\n Prior Post:\u00a0<\/strong>Go for the trivia gold with these 16 fun facts about the Winter Olympics<\/a><\/p>\n Don\u2019t miss a post! 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